Brandy is sooooo wrong 4 having her daughter look so chap! Her dad is not cute @ all! Sy'rai needs her hair done, a few hours @ the park and nicer clothes. Geesh if brandy can keep herself fresh, she could @least hookup her offspring! ...Hospital precautions regarding swine flu meant this first-time father couldn't attend his daughter's birth.H1N1 Prevents Father From Seeing Daughter's Birth. New Dad Forced To Stay Home To Protect Child. POSTED: 10:19 pm EDT October 28, 2009. UPDATED: 10:51 am EDT October 29, 2009. BALTIMORE -- A new father missed his daughter's birth but ...A Republican state representative in Georgia bought his 4-year-old daughter a hot pink .22 caliber gun for her birthday. No, we are not making this up. ... 4 is a little young to use one, but in a few years his children can and should be able to learn gun safety, and the proper way to handle a gun. - Anonymous. Posted 10/27/09 03:55 PM. Thank you Rob for actually posting something logical on this site! I know this was said in a couple other posts but seriously, ...Her daughter, who I referred to in the a�?who pays for whata�? article as a�?darling daughtera�?, has champagne taste on a beer budget. This young, 20-year-old girl pulled every manipulative tactic on her mom and dad that she could muster, ...1) Stop talking like a baby. 2) Stop playing with your burrito. 3) Your vagina is your business. 4) Dessert?! You barely touched your dinner. 5) Take your finger out of your nose. 6) Why do you always have to go right when the waiter ...This book is a great book that helps men learn the how tos of taking care of their daughters hair. Gives you step by step instructions on how to braid, lets you know the tools of the trade.And if they do then why do they allow their young daughter to go out dressed like a paedophile's wet dream? I swear to god, if my daughter ever came down the stairs dressed like that she'd get through the front door over my cold dead ...a�?That's because daddy's mean and likes to bug me.a�? He stares at his daughter who has formed her face into a pout, a�?Oh fine. What crown should I get? And if we're getting me a costume we're getting your other daddy a costume too.a�? ... Billie sighed in defeat and turned to face the young cashier working the till. 'Guess what?a�? Ava's face broke out into a smile as the cashier questioned her, a�?This crowns for my daddy! We is gonna be matching!a�? ...Turns out I'm not alone in my misigivings and angst in this area: a chap called Craig Lawrey contacted me a few weeks ago about a book he's written called Does Your Daughter Have Dad Hair? I wasn't really into receiving a copy - since ...
I make it sound bad by saying "Baby Daddy" lol but me and this guy have been on an off for three years now and we have a 6months old daughter. He honestly loves her more then anything i can see it evrytime we go visit. He lives in a different province... 4 hours away from here... and he wont move here... he always says "not now".... i cant move over there because im still young and i have to finish school first and im planning on geting into the government... wat do i do? Im not even sure if it will work between us... ive recently accepted the Lord as my savior and hes not Christian... i pray alot for this to get better... HELP! no negetivaty please...thx in advance!
My 4 year old stepson is a hell raiser. He does not listen to his father or me. His mom says she has no problems out of him but she had never disciplined him at all. We just recently started getting him every other week because of child custody. I know that its all new to him but its been over a month now and i think he should be getting into the routine. His teacher says she doesn't have any problems out of him until its his week at daddy's. She says she can always tell a difference. He knows what he did at school to cause him to get in trouble at home and he knows that he is going to get a spanking or timeout because spankings just are not working with him. Me and dad have tried everything from not spanking and just taking things away to making sure he gets praised when he has been good. Dad and I are to the point of no return and frustrated. The bad thing is that we have a younger daughter and now she is starting to act out cause she sees that her brother does it. Any who thanks for any advice that is giving its greatly appreciated.
I have 2 children one is three years old and the other one is 3mths. They are exactly 3 years apart and were born on the same day, which was totally unplanned. My 3 year old daughter was born during a previous relationship, her dad and I broke up. 3 years later I'm involved in a new relationship, engaged to be married with a 3 month old. This is my fiance's first biological child. This is my second, but he's the first boy in an all girl family. We don't plan to have anymore, would the birth order rules apply here, and if so would they be considered 2 first borns or 2 onlys. We both make sure not to treat the children any different. I still spend plenty of time with my daughter so she doesn't feel like her brother is taking away her attention. My fiance spends more time with our daughter than our new son...I think because he's so small and he's scared. I'm sure that will change as he gets older. Right now he mostly plays with our daughter. I'm a stay at home mom...my fiance works so the majority of their time is spent with me. Also, I include my daughter in everything with the baby. She helps bathe him, she helps to pick his clothes, she doesn't help feed him yet because I breastfeed. Also, her 2 cousins which are 13 and 14 come over everyday to help out with the 3 year old. They read to her, play with her, and do whatever they need to do to basically distract her while I take care of the house and spend time with the baby. My daughter's biological father is partially in her life. She calls her soon to be step father daddy and I never told her to. He's been in her life since she was 10mths. Sorry it's so long, but basically how can I keep the birth order thing at bay. I'm the youngest of 4, and my fiance has a brother that is 12 years younger than him. Would the birth order rules apply to us or are there exceptions?
Right now I am here to clarify this whole thing about women, I am a 23 year old young man and I do have a beautiful daughter and I have a beautiful mother and I have lost my grandmother who is also a beautiful women as well.
Anyway im gonna speak on this whole women topic thing. Just like a bich a women can be a bich and just like a hoe a women ca be a hoe but at the same time she is still a women. Every women bleed whatever time a month that is and every women bich when they bleeding. Every women get hot and every women got hormones and I just recently found out that every women wants to be a little hoe at some point in her time. But I guess they try to keep that on the low, and the ones that dona��t let that feeling overpower them and they become hoes.
See I understand this whole women bich hoe thing perfectly. Its not that I studied or I did research on women, nope nope nope nothing like that. Its just that this whole thing is so simple to me.
You women you are beautiful, you are a necessity, you are sometimes everything But when a man is a real man a women is only a cater to that person, a help to that person, a distribute to that person, a contribute to that person. And that person happens to be that man.
So mommy put them shoes on, house shoes mind you and cook a meal, and if time gets hard cook crack. If times get hard hit that strip for your daddy, your daddy being your man
Because at all times a real women wants to see a real man. And that brings me back to saying that a real man makes a real women just help to him. And a real women is going to try her best to be that most helpful person.
So in conclusion if you dona��t like what I just said then maybe you aint a real man and maybe you aint a real women. But if you feel me and you can relate then men get your gear hop in your coupe drop the top and do your thing.
My husband and I have been trying to find a way to fight for custody of his daughter (my step-daughter). She is two years old. Her mother is very young and has 3 children under 4, by 3 different guys. She and her latest 'baby daddy' live together. None of them work. We have suspicions that other people are living in the house as well, and have assumptions who they might be. None of these people work (4 adults, 3 children), and all of them do drugs. The mother's boyfriend has drug charges and domestic violence charges against him in the past. There is absolutely NO conversation between them and us - we do not know when she has doctors appointments, illnesses, allergies, ect. All they want is the child support check and a baby sitter! We try to get her as much as we can. She has come home (to our house) many times with diaper rashes so bad it bled and hurt to change her! She has been potty trained at our house but they do not work with her at all so every weekend, we must train her again. We suspect they do not pay attention to her, probably just stick her in her room with her older sister and ignore them. There is absolutely NO conversation; we have no clue how she is treated in the house. They have not had a job in atleast the past year and a half. My husband didn't know he had a child until she was 9 months old - when the welfare checks stopped! and then she wanted the child support and wouldn't let him see her! We know there are drugs in the house because they have security cameras outstide (but the house is a shack!) We are trying desparetly trying to save money for an attorney but that's easier said than done. And we are scared to talk to the social services in case they don't 'find' anything. I know it's really hard to take a child from its mother, but if you can see the couple and my husband and I, it is obvious who is going to provide the best life for the child. Does anyone have any advice for us?! I love that little girl with all my heart and our patience is running short.
We have a journal for about a year now with every time we talk to them, what time, and pictures of all of the diaper rashes. The boyfriend has threatend us many times. We went to the state police dept. and they told us it was a 'he said, she said' kind of thing, so now we record every conversation - and it is legal as long as one person in the conversation is aware of the recording.
My Husband is 38 and I have noticed a pattern with his moods. He can be fine for about two weeks to a month. Then he has what seem to be an episode that can last the same amount of time. During these episodes he starts out with calling me names out of the blue and with in a day or two he is agitated and constantly mad at everyone in the house. The kids included. He also shows signs of depression after about two days. He wants to not help with our two youngest children or even go to the store. I leave him alone about not helping because it has become a pattern of yelling if I ask for his help and the kids don't want his help when he is acting like this. His behavior final goes to a point where he is argumentative and yelling constant. All I can do is stay out of his way as much as possible, but even that will not keep him from looking for me to yell at. My husband smokes, but he doesn't drink or do any drugs. He drinks about a pot of coffee a day. He also takes tylenol often for head pain offten. I have notice during these episodes he seems to take tylenol more. some times about four times in a day. He also seems to have trouble breathing at night and says our room is to stuffy going to the sofa for a few hours to clear it. He also eats like he is depressed. He will eat a whole bag or two of chips in one night and countless other junk food despite me cooking a full meal.
What I want to know is if my husband is Bipolar, going thru his midlife crises or just an ass who want to show he is sometimes. I raely yell at him I mostly keep my complaints to myself or talk to him about problems in a normal calm way. He says it is me making him act like this. I have changed countless things that he said I do that bother him, but none of those changes fixed his mood going up and down.
I have tried to talk to him about his behavior and maybe see a doctor to make sure it isn't something serious. I have told him that plenty of normal people has mood problems and that it doesn't make him nuts if he does. A doctor could tell him if it is a health problem or a mental disorder. Either one can be helped. He refuses to go and says there is nothing wrong with him. I have watched him over the years and done countless things to make him happier, but none work. I know his patterns when it comes to his mood changes. Sometimes I feel it is unbearable to deal with another two weeks to a month of him yelling at every little thing that happens in life. He yells if I can't get a bottle or a diaper in a minute flat. We have six children and I can not be everywhere at once. I try to get everyone need met as soon as I can including my husbands , but there is only one of me. I can only do it as soon as I can not any faster. When I am at home alone I manage without feeling over loaded for the most part, but when he is having his mood and at home it seems that I am pressured to do more then is humanly possible. I really want the calm man to be around for the most part. I am exhausted of the constant roller coaster of normal then screaming. It effects the kids lives to a point where our oldest daughter who is 9 will say daddy is having an episode again. I will help you mommy, but I would rather go to my room and read if you want me to help daddy. I normally tell her to go to her room and I will deal with it. I feel like I need to protect all our children from him when he is like this. Not because he would hurt them, but because I don't think it is right for him to yell at them for just being.
I know none of you can really tell me what is wrong with him. Only a doctor can do that. what I would like to know is what you think the problem is and how I can deal with his behavior. He is my husband and I am unwilling to leave him when I made the promise to be with him for the rest of my life so that answer will not help. He also won't go to the doctor to get help so any thing that might explain his mood swings and how to better deal with the situation would be help full. thank you.
In response to many questions about the siduation. He works inspecting houses. It is not what he went to college for. He went for finace, but we live in a small town that does not have many jobs for him. He gets lots of exersize and isn't over weight. Due to the small town and me being from Thailand I have no support here in the US to have communiy support. His family is here though. What would be a good question is how do you get a man to go to te doctor that refuses to go? I really want him to be happy with life and for the family to be happy also.
Hello,
I just wanna know what people think about me getting married at the age of 18 ? I have a daughter that is three years old. ( got pregnant young wasnt planned ) I have a boyfriend of 4 years now. Honestly i think i am ready to get married with my boyfriend. BUT he isnt ready.. He still has a lot of growing up to do but I am afraid that in the future ill end up losing him to another women that is way prettier than i am.. & i am the type of person that stays with my baby daddy forever. or will try and work everything out.. He says hes in love with me but if he was in love with me he'd pop that question.. idk ? Am i going over board ? I just think that now that we're old enough we should just get married nothing big but something simple... let me know what you guys think. I am confused why he doesnt wanna marry me.. Sometimes i feel like hes not in love with me and is just saying that cause we have a kid together. ? ....
Thank you to all our veterans in America on this Veteran's Day. We deeply appreciate your service!
My husband and I both look very young for our ages. In fact, we've hardly aged a day since we first laid eyes on each other in college -- at least, that's what we tell each other. But our children have a way of bringing us crashing back to earth.
Recently, my husband and I were discussing a man who was running for public office.
"He's a Vietnam vet," commented my husband.
"What's that?" queried our young daughter.
Trying to answer the question in terms a four-year-old could readily grasp, my husband replied, "Well, honey, that means that the man fought in a war that happened when Mommy and Daddy were little."
Our daughter regarded us both thoughtfully for a moment, then asked, "So, was he a Viking?
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Top brass from the Army, Navy, and Marine Corps were arguing about who had the bravest troops. They decided to settle the dispute using an enlisted man from each branch.
The Army general called a private over and ordered him to climb to the top of the base flagpole while singing "The Caissons Go Rolling Along," then let go with both hands and salute. The private quickly complied.
Next, the admiral ordered a sailor to climb the pole, polish the brass knob at the top, sing "Anchors Aweigh," salute smartly, and jump off. The sailor did as he was told and landed on the concrete below.
Finally, the marine was told to do exactly as the Army and Navy men had done, but in full battle gear, with pack filled with bricks and loaded weapon carried high. He took one look at the Marine general and said, "You're out of your mind, sir!"
The Marine commander turned to the others. "Now THAT'S guts!"
I want people to give me their opinion on the thoughts I had about this the other day. I am far to afraid to ask someone this in person.
One day, about two weeks ago, I realized something about a certain person. There is this girl at my school, Kat, is her name. She's a really nice girl, youthful, everything that could make any girl a good person. Except for the lack of common sense, I guess. She has a 1 year old daughter.
Now, where I am from, most teenage mothers are all the same. Stupid, irresponsible, and are apart of the gang/street lifestyle. But when I dig a bit of digging, I found out that this girl is not apart of this, which is a damn miracle considering she is a teenage mother.
She and I get along well, just bits of joking and smiles here and there, but she is nice to everyone, I guess. One day, the day I came to my realization, was the day I put two and two together. I envisioned Kat and her daughter as a whole, and immediately came to a conclusion.
I, very honestly, thought to myself "If I could, I would gladly be that little girls daddy".
The thought came so quickly and candidly that I jumped a little in my seat. This was a pure thought, as I realized immediatly afterwards.
The thing is, I've been having problems with it. I have been debating in my mind about the morality of this. I have felt everything from grown up, to ashamed, happy, and even nervous.
What do you people think? Am I foolish? Or am I something other?
As far as I know, the guy who got her pregnant hasn't owned up to what he did yet.
Were both 16.
When I was in high school, just about all of my friends got pregnant..
They all had different situations.. some managed to do it solo and single, some had their parents help.. some got to live with the boyfriend.. some even were accepted to move in with the boyfriend and his family.. some relied on welfare.
We're grown up now and so are the kids. ages 5 - 8.
I can recall when each young mother found out they were pregnant... thinking it was the end of the world and how are they gonna make it they are far too young..
Well now that I think about it they all turned out well. and even the whole process of raising a kid went well.. Most of my friends were expecting their parents to kill them, but really what can u do?? Given time the grandparents were thrilled and had a pleasure helping their daughters out. Giving them a place to raise their child, and free child care.
Does it really take a man and woman to be out on their own to raise a child ideally?? Who are we to judge that maybe living with 3 generations of family would not be better than living on their own?
It's looked down upon so much.. teen mothers.. But it never really killed anyone to have a baby so young.
Now in the present I realize that their kids have always been loved and had a good life.
Why is it ideally to wait to have a baby when you're older with money and on your own??
why do we feel like this process of creating life should only be granted by the wealthy??
some people do want to wait for maturity and money because they want to do it all on their own.
What about the people who don't feel that way?? why is it wrong to move your baby's daddy in with your mom and dad?? more love for the baby right??
But I do have to say I am shocked how well my friends turned out. They all have families and doing well on their own. Just needed a little help in the beginning but nothing wrong with that right? They did very well raising their children. Their kids never skipped a mean and never went to sleep unsheltered.
I am however aware that most teens are not yet mature enough to take on such a big task both mentally and physically. But when you really think about it, it's not that bad.
who says not having your own house is unfit to raise a child?? and if you're on welfare then I guess that counts as steady income?...
welfare is only granted for certain amount of years so they can't make a living out of that.
Why is it bad to wanna live at home with parents? and utilize government aid?
And why is it bad to be low income or on welfare? they still have money to keep everyone fed and sheltered, and clothed. Just because someone doesn't have lavish cash to spend on extras doesn't promote them the right to conceive???
My friends were not slackers.. in fact most of them were on honor roll and still managed to graduate with it.
I'm not saying that being on welfare is good. But its there to help for a reason.. if all it was was to steal then it wouldn't exist.
When my friends first found out they were pregnant, they got on welfare to help during the time before they got a job. They didn't stay on it long, they used it as aid how it's supposed to. And now they have a job and pay taxes. What's wrong with that?
My friends were not slackers.. in fact most of them were on honor roll and still managed to graduate with it.
I'm not saying that being on welfare is good. But its there to help for a reason.. if all it was was to steal then it wouldn't exist.
When my friends first found out they were pregnant, they got on welfare to help during the time before they got a job. They didn't stay on it long, they used it as aid how it's supposed to. And now they have a job and pay taxes. What's wrong with that?
Okay, so this is my dilemma, and I am really fighting the urge to just freak out on my ex.
When I was 16 I had one really crazy/romantic/over-indulgent summer that ended with me losing my virginity and getting pregnant at the same time. (In case you're wondering, yes we used a condom, and no it didn't break... I should play the lottery or something.) Long story short- I do not condone Abortion as a method of birth control so it wasn't even an option for me personally. I was literally feeling ill only days after we were together and went to him to tell him I thought I might be pregnant... well he freaked and left town before I even found out for sure. 3 weeks later I tested + and at that moment my whole life changed.
I graduated high school 6 months early (Had to take night classes for extra credits) and worked 2 full time jobs to pay my way through college. I got my RN by the time I was 18, and have worked ever since.
In this time my ex saw her once when she was 3 months old and then once more at 6 mo old. Then nothing til she was 18mo old. (Then he actually came back and saw her every single day... for 4 days.)
He disappeared again only to show up right before her 3rd birthday. This was the first time she was introduced to him as Daddy (frankly before this, she didn't even understand the concept). They had a really nice day together as she put on her Dr Seuss backpack and led him by the hand up and down our street pretending to 'Go to school' and before he left that day she gave him a hand drawn invitation to her B-day party to which he said Of course he would attend. *He never showed up.*
And he hasn't seen her since.
Now I have never stood in the way of him seeing her, and you will never hear me say a bad thing about him in front of her because she is a smart young girl and when she is old enough I know she will figure it out on her own.
My dilemma is that he just started emailing me out of nowhere and wants to be a part of her life again. Oh, I forgot to mention... "He really means it this time". Problem is, he has not seen her, nor made an effort to speak to her since she was nearly 3 years old.... she is 9 1/2 now!
He asked if he could just pick her up and take her out to eat or possibly even an over-night... I lost my mind.
Not really- cuz I don't yell, but if I did, then he absolutely would have heard it. I told him that I would prefer it if he could come to our house and see her there so she could get to know him a little better and that we could go from there. He said this is unacceptable and it is his child to and he has rights. What the heck is wrong with him?!
One last side note here, I have never asked him for anything-ever. I never filed for child support against him, and never interfered with his life. It was my decision to keep her and so long as I was physically able to work and earn a living- well, I was going to do it. Luckily I have never needed public assistance- but he doesn't know that. Sure there would have been times where a little extra money would have helped, but I was kinda hoping he would have stepped up to the plate and done it himself. (Don't worry, I wasn't holding my breath.)
So, back to the original question, am I being completely selfish about my daughter?? Personally, I don't think I am being unreasonable. Maybe an outside opinion would help.
I have two daughters aged 8 and 13. I feel like I connect better with my 8 year old. I love my girls both the same, I honestly do but at times I feel closer to my 8 year old. I've always been close to my youngest daughter since she was born...closer than I was with my eldest daughter when she was a baby. They are completely different personalities, my family say my 13 year old is just like me when I was her age. I must say close though, perhaps she is just a daddy's girl. But sometimes I feel like I miss my 8 year old more when she's at school than I do my 13 year old. Please don't attack me...just any advice?
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Add: I must say, my 13 year old and I are close!!!! We are not exactly worlds apart.
Why do we love children?
1) NUDITY
I was driving with my three young children one warm summer evening when a woman in the convertible ahead of us
Stood up and waved. She was stark naked!
As I was reeling from the shock, I heard my 5-year-old shout from the Back seat, 'Mom, that lady isn't wearing a seat belt!'
2) OPINIONS
On the first day of school, a first-grader handed his teacher a note from his mother. The note read,
'The opinions expressed by this child are not necessarily those of his parents.'
3) KETCHUP
A woman was trying hard to get the ketchup out of the jar. During her struggle the phone rang so she asked her 4-year-old daughter to answer the phone.
'Mommy can't come to the phone to talk to you right now......
........she's hitting the bottle.'
4) MORE NUDITY
A little boy got lost at the YMCA and found himself in the women's locker room. When he was spotted, the room burst into shrieks, with ladies grabbing towels and running for cover. The little boy watched in amazement and then asked,
'What's the matter, haven't you ever seen a little boy before?'
5) POLICE # 1
While taking a routine vandalism report at an elementary school, I was interrupted by a little girl about 6 years old. Looking up and down at my uniform, she asked, 'Are you a cop? Yes,' I answered and continued writing the report. My mother said if I ever needed help I should ask the police. Is that right?' 'Yes, that's right,' I told her.
'Well , then,' she said as she extended her foot toward me,
Would you please tie my shoe?'
6) POLICE # 2
It was the end of the day when I parked my police van in front of the station. As I gathered my equipment, my K-9 partner, Jake, was barking, and I saw a little boy staring in at me. 'Is that a dog you got back there?' he asked.
'It sure is, ' I replied.
Puzzled, the boy looked at me and then towards the back of the Van.
Finally he said, 'What'd he do?'
7) ELDERLY
While working for an organization that delivers lunches to elderly shut-ins, I used to take my 4-year-old daughter on my afternoon rounds. She was unfailingly intrigued by the various appliances of old age, particularly the canes, walkers and wheelchairs. One day I found her staring at a pair of false teeth soaking in a glass. As I braced myself for the inevitable barrage of questions, she merely turned and whispered,
'The tooth fairy will never believe this!'
8) DRESS-UP
A little girl was watching her parents dress for a party. When she saw her dad donning his tuxedo, she warned, 'Daddy, you shouldn't wear that suit.'
'And why not, darling?'
'You know that it always gives you a headache the next morning.'
9) DEATH
While walking along the sidewalk in front of his church, our minister heard the intoning of a prayer that nearly made his collar wilt. Apparently, his 5-year-old son and his playmates had found a dead robin. Feeling that proper burial should be performed, they had secured a small box and cotton batting, then dug a hole and made ready for the disposal of the deceased.
The minister's son was chosen to say the appropriate prayers and with sonorous dignity intoned his version of what he thought his father always said:
'Glory be unto the Faaather, and unto the Sonnn, and into the hole he goooes.'
(I want this line used at my funeral!)
10) SCHOOL
A little girl had just finished her first week of school. 'I'm just wasting my time,' she said to her mother..
'I can't read, I can't write, and they won't let me talk!'
11 ) BIBLE
A little boy opened the big family Bible. He was fascinated as he fingered through the old pages. Suddenly, something fell out of the Bible. He picked up the object and looked at it. What he saw was an old leaf that had been pressed in between the pages.
'Mama, look what I found,' the boy called out.
'What have you got there, dear?'
With astonishment in the young boy's voice, he answered,
'I think it's Adam's underwear!'
My daughters father wants to get back in the picture. He hasnt been around since she was 6months old and even then it was only once. My daughter is now 4 1/2. he has seen her once! i dont know how i feel about disrupting everything my daughter knows about her life. She loves my BF and calls him daddy (because we have been togetehr since she was 1) I dont want to deprive her of knowing her father. i dont want her to resent me or her "daddy" for not allowig her to know her father. but she is so young i am not sure if she would understand. I just dont know what to do! he wants to take her out for ice cream friday after she gets out of preschool but i am not sure.
she has only the one time when she was 6months old which means she doesnt remeber him.
no he does not support her finacially or any other way. He is basically the sperm that gave her life nothing more.
She loves her daddy, my bf. I dont know if this will mess with her mind. she already has a brother from my bfs past relationship that lives with us. that was complicated enough. and i am expecting 2 half siblings for her. I just want her to feel comfortable.
His family was never around either, it has been me and my current bF thats it!
i just dont want him hurting her, or trying some bogus stuff.
I read on the internet that Child Protection Services doesn't investigate emotional abuse on a child unless it is physically impairing their ability to function? My fiances' daughter is 5, and her biological mother just took her away from us, just because she doesn't like me. Her intentions have been nothing but cruel and having nothing to do with the best interest of the child. She has also refused to keep him, and I and the rest of our family and friends from seeing her whatsoever. Charity(her name) is miserable. She is an emotional wreck because her mother is keeping her from her father. She is belittling her father and I, saying we were bad parents. And worse of all, she went out and got a new boyfriend and is forcing him as new daddy to Charity and her younger sisters. Besides her emotionally confusing the child, she doesn't have her own bed to sleep in, she sleeps in the same bed as her mother, there are at least 7 other people living in the house that she's in. (Grandma, uncle, aunt...and so on) She has not enrolled Charity in school, she is 2 months behind. I found something online called Parental Alienation Syndrome, and it fits what her mom is doing to a T, but I have no idea how to report this, or who to talk to that could do something about it. Her father and I are so worried and upset and feel completely powerless in the situation. We can't afford to take her to court right now for custody, and even during that long process, in the meantime, Charity would still be suffering. If anyone has any advice, please help. Charity is only 5, but she is very smart and aware of what is going on. She wants to be with her father and I, she barely knows her mother. She hasn't been a part of her life for the past 2 years, and all of a sudden takes her from us for her own personal gain and power trip. It's not right, and we want to do something about it.
My parents have been divorced for like 9 yrs, I've been living with my mom for like 8 of those years. My dad has always been my favorite parent, so yes i am a Daddy's little girl. Anyways, I'd been asking to live with my dad for almost all 9 yrs, finally my mom agreed to let me go live with my dad. As soon as i got the chance i moved, it just so happen to be the day after my dad and new step-mom got back from their honeymoon. My step-mom was a single lady, with a REALLY nice car, nice house, and a sweet dog before she met my dad, then she fell in love with him and once they were married, she became a step-mom of 3 young adults, 25 & 21 year old step sons, one married and his wife expecting, and 16 yr old teenage step daughter, and their bi-polar (she isn't diagnosed or anything, its just a thought of why she does the things she does) mother, the ex wife of her now husband. My step-mom has displayed INCREDIBLE patience, unbelievable love and kindness, and yet all she has gotten is drama from a crazy, not so nice ex-wife. I need help with a way to show her how much she means to my dad and me, because this woman has had to deal with ALOT, and none of it is her fault, all she did was fall in love with a man who has a crazy ex-wife. HELP, PLEASE!!
Disclaimer: I am a Christian and I have posted these funny saying of kids about the bible. It is only meant for fun not to make fun of anyone. So please just laugh about it. God has a sense of humor too, and He loves Kids.
King of Glory
Six year old Mike was listening to the Messiah one day with his mother. When it got to this part: "He is the King of glory," Mike asked, "Is Glory His wife?"
Palm Sunday
One Palm Sunday, little Joey had a sore throat and had to stay home from church with a sitter. When the rest of the family came home, they were carrying palm branches. Joey asked what they were for. His father told him that people held them over Jesus' head when he walked by.
"Wouldn't you know it!" said Joey. "The one Sunday I miss, Jesus shows up!"
Did Noah Go Fishing?
A Sunday School teacher asked her class if they though Noah did a lot of fishing while he was on the ark.
"Of course not," said one little boy. "How could he? He only had two worms!"
The Children's Sermon
On Easter Sunday, the minister was giving the children's sermon. He reached into a bag and pulled out an egg. He asked the children if they knew what was inside.
"I know," said one boy. "Panty hose!"
The Collection Plate
A little boy was in church for the first time. He watched as the ushers passed around the collection plate. When they got to his pew, he told his father, "Don't pay for me, Daddy. I'm under five."
Prayers
The Sunday School teacher asked, "Now, Bobby, do you say your prayers before you eat?"
"No, sir, we don't have to," Bobby replied. "My mom's a good cook."
Elijah and the Prophets of Baal
A Sunday School teacher told her class about the story of Elijah and the prophets of Baal. The prophets of Baal tried to get their god to send fire to ignite the offering they had put on their altar. Of course, their god couldn't do it. Then Elijah put his offering of a bull on an altar. But before he called on God to ignite it from heaven, he had the people pour water on the bull four times. The teacher asked the class if they knew why Elijah would do that.
A little girl waved her hand excitedly. "I know, I know," she said, "To make the gravy!"
Lot's Wife
A Sunday School teacher was telling the class about how Lot's wife looked back at the city while they were fleeing its destruction, even though God had forbidden her to. She then turned into a pillar of salt.
A little boy interrupted her and said, "My mommy looked back one time while she was driving the car and she turned into a street lamp."
The Good Samaritan
A Sunday School class was learning about the Good Samaritan. To make the story vivid to the children, teacher told the story in detail, describing how the Samaritan was beaten, robbed, then left for dead. Then she asked the class what they would do if they saw someone on the side of the road, beaten and all bloody. A little girl quietly replied, "I think I'd throw up."
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Who's the Higher Power?
A Sunday School teacher was teaching her class about the powerful Kings and Queens of the Old Testament. "But there is a higher power. Does any one know what it is?"
One little boy said, "Sure. Aces."
How Moses Crossed the Red Sea
A mother asked her nine-year-old son what he learned in Sunday School that day. He said the teacher told them how God sent Moses behind enemy lines to rescue the Israelites and lead them out of Egypt. When they got to the Red Sea, the army built a pontoon bridge and everyone walked across safely. Then they saw the Egyptians coming, so Moses radioed for reinforcements. Bombers came and blew up the bridge, so the people were saved.
His mother asked, "Is that really what the teacher said?"
"No," he replied, "but if I told it the way the teacher did, youa��d never believe it."
The Lord is My Shepherd
A Sunday School teacher decided to teach her young class the 23 rd Psalm. After church, a mother asked her daughter what she learned that day in class. The little girl replied, "The Lord is my shepherd and that's all I need to know!"
Be Not Afraid
After church one day, a mother asked her daughter what the Sunday School lesson was about. The daughter replied, "Dona��t' be scared, you'll get your quilt." The mother was perplexed and couldn't figure out what her daughter could be referring to. So she called the teacher and asked her what the lesson was. The teacher said, "Be not afraid, your Comforter will come."
Jesus' Father's Name
A Sunday school teacher asked her class, "What was Jesus' mother's name?"
They all knew. "Mary," they answered in unison.
The teacher then asked, "Does anyone know what Jesus' father's name was?"
A little kid shot up his hand and said, "Verge."
The teacher asked, "Where did you get that?"
The little kid said, "You know, Verge n' Mary.
So it's my job to open all the packages, with the plastic bungee cords, and the tape and the twisty wire things that make it difficult to remove the toys from the box.
My daughter received the Hair Salon Barbie as a gift, and I was removing it from the box. And she had the plastic bungee things around her ankles and wrists and neck, and I was untying her from all this stuff, and she was wearing this skimpy dress, and, well, in releasing her from all of these restraints, I began to experience a tumescence in my nether regions.
My ex noticed, too, and exclaimed, "You're disgusting! You're just sick!" And then she asked me to leave. She says, "Please, will you just go home? We'll see you tomorrow?" I was like, "look. It's no big deal," and she was like, "Please. Please leave." And my daughter was like, "Why does Daddy have to go?" and my ex was like "He just does. Please leave now." Of course, I don't believe our kids or the other young kids knew what she was talking about, but HOW THE HELL WAS THAT MY FAULT!?
And my ex was the one who BOUGHT THE TOY IN THE FIRST PLACE!
the 3rd fell weird and good at the same time. im 17 and she 16 yea i know we still young. but my answer is. when we had sex she call me daddy you know what i mean. n my mind it pop n like im doin my daughter but i dont have one. is this wrong or just find during sex
My husband is leaving to go to mexico for personal legal reasons soon. Hes going to be gone for 2-4 MONTHS. The things is our youngest daughter is a daddy's little girl 100% and since there is no way we can go with him because I am in school and our oldest is in school, I'm not sure how to deal with the separation anxiety between Raylee and her dad. Its not an option for her to go with him, I can't have her going somewhere where I don't know who she will be with all the time. Any ideas on how to make this go smoother would be appreciated.
She is 2 and we won't know when he will be coming back until he's almost finished over there. I like your ideas about coloring pictures for him thanks!
I've been dating girls for awhile now and my dad is still the only one who doesn't know.
How should I tell him?
My younger sister came out over a year ago, but what my concern is is that it is the last thing he'd expect from me, the daddy's girl, and his oldest daughter.
I already have a house full of kids. 5 to be exact, they are all mine biologically.While my wife works full time I am the stay at home parent. Our adopted son does not take to us well. He only wants to be held by my wife when she comes home from work. He is just not warming up to me and my youngest daughter said to me. Daddy why don't he like me? At first I thought I was the only one who noticed it and now she can see it too. He is just not warming up to us. How do I tell my wife this and how do I tell her I want to give him back?
He fights with me even if I am trying to feed him or change his diaper and if I try and restrain him from kicking me while I am changing his diaper or givign him a bath he will scream as if I am killing him. At night he will scream all through the night if he has no one to sleep with. So my wife and I let him sleep with us. It is only then that I am able to have close contact with him with out him screaming or fighting me. But as soon as my wife leaves for work that is when he changes into a diffrent child. He wont eat unless I force him to do so. He will even hit my three youngest biological children if they get too close to him or if they have something he wants and don't give it to him. I had to put bells on his shoes so I could fine him becasue often he will hide and wont come out until I find him. You have no idea what its like with him.
Devon Chaos, No it not Victoria, I am her husband. And I will have to delete this question before she finds it.
My daughters are 9 and 6. They fight quite a bit. My nine year old seems to not be bonded much with her sister. She will hug me, daddy and her friends but is resistant to hug baby brother and sister. Someone suggested jealousy and that may very well be it but I do not know. How do you foster a stronger bond and reduce the resistance to love on one another. My younger daughter will hug her sister if we suggest it but then the 9 year old is "NO WAY." Otherwise though, the younger sister will not attempt to show affection to her older sister. They will fight over what color the sky is it seems like. :)
any suggestions would be great...
In my music comp class, our assignment is to make a folksong. I decided(well more like didn't have much of a choice) to make a "sad" folk song.
And since a folksong tells a story, I was wondering if the one I made was good enough(The lyrics are still being edited so I'm not posting them)
Basically my song is about a little girl who is waiting at the dock, hoping for her father to come home from his fishing trip as she always does. But what had happened is he was caught in a storm and his ship was caught on the reefs and he drowned at sea.
The fisherman's daughter and wife are left to mourn, the mother goes crazy from grief and kills herself. Confused of what has all happened, the little girl goes back to the docks and falls in the water thinking something on the lines of "I can see mommy and daddy again"(because the dad had been "lost at sea", and in the song she is very young) and subsequently drowns by mistake
one of the lines I made is "Soon the fishermana��s daughter, shea��ll be underneath the water
to once again see her father"
so thoughts opinions
TIPS are loved
My future step daughter LOVES her mommy. Which I would never take away from her. But I have known this girl since she was a baby and now I plan on marring her daddy but she really does not understand. I don't think she should try to understand I mean she is only 4 1/2. She is more of a closed book. Her brother is very smart and knows a lot. So we are not worried about him as much. Her on the other hand I am truly scared for. I told her dad that she might need some one that she can talk to that's a professional but she is so young. I really just want to be there for her. I do not want to replace that bond her and her mom have but I really just want her to get though this with out shutting down. Any suggestions??? What things can I do to help her learn and open up and be honest. Right now she just tells people what they want to hear. Which is not good.
Please understand I am trying to help her not get judged by others who have read prior postings.
Our son just turned one I wont leave him with anyone but my partner (his daddy) and my parents. I only leave him for 3-4 hours max when alone with my parents, with his daddy the most is not even an hour (i just duck to the shops etc). He doesnt stay with my partners parents because they drink every night and we dont agree with drinking around children. My partner and I have been out to dinner alone once maybe twice since he was born, I havent had more than one drink since our son was born (when he wasnt around, i dont drink at all when he is with me). We both just love being around our son and dont find everything that exciting anymore when he isnt with us. A girlfriend of mine has a daughter two months younger and goes out at least twice a month and leaves her for sleepovers already and often comments that i dont do anything exciting anymore but i just cant stand the thought of going out partying anymore.
Do i need to relax or is it ok how my partner and I are? We are happy how we live our life but friends think its boring and weird.
I do trust my partner i have no worries there at all. He just isnt that interested in looking after our son on his own lol
Its HIS parents that drink not mine.
which story is best???
1. The Prince of darkness watched the witch who was chained to the wall, sulkily. The witch made no move to escape, which really annoyed him. She obviously knew what was in store for her, though; her breast was heaving and her face was as pail as chalk. The Prince of darkness waved a hand and the guards left the room. He then straightened up and addressed the witch a�?witch, I am sure you know the prophecy, so tell me!a�? his eyes burned blacker than darkness itself a�?tell me, or suffer!a�? The witch stood her ground a�?I wouldna��t tell you if I died through torture!a�? the prince of darkness looked at her and then laughed a�?have it your way then!a�? he walked over to a wheel in the corner and began to turn it. The chains that held the witch to the wall were being pulled taut. She was being stretched. Thirty seconds later the witch began to scream. The prince of darkness asked again a�?tell me the prophesy, witch! Tell me now and you wona��t diea�? the witch shook her head, but another thirty seconds later there were loud popping noises as her arms and legs dislocated from her body and she started talking. a�?OK! OK! Ia��ll talk!a�?The witches voice was edged with pain a�?The prophesy says the prince of the shape shifters needs the blood of the only child in the leopard royal family, the daughter of your mothera��s best friend, Joanne, so he can live forever and never grow old, thus send the world into internal darknessa�? the prince of darkness frowned a�?Joanne doesna��t have a daughter! There are no children in the leopard royal family!a�?The witch shook her head a�?Joanne does have a daughter, but she sent her away to live with a peasant family because the prophesy says she will marry the prince of darkness and help him to rule the world.a�? The witch screamed again with pain and the prince of darkness shouted a�?Where does she live?a�? The witch shivered and whispered a�?37 Apple Lane and she goes to Littlewell School in the town of Littlewell. Her name is Kezabeth Lightwood and she has the shape of the royal +leopard.a�? The prince of darkness sighed and slowly lifted the knife off the table and in one quick movement stabbed it through the witcha��s heat. He was out before the witcha��s scream of pain began.
2.Annaa��s face was wet with tears as she stared down at the
Mangled and crumpled body that now lay on the jagged rocks
below. Her mum had been taking a photo of Anna when the
part of the cliff she had been standing on collapsed and she
fell two hundred meters before landing on the rocks. The sea
around the body was red; stained with the blood of Annaa��s
mum. Anna stood up from her crouch at the edge of the cliff
and brushed her flame coloured hair out of her face, where it
was sticking to her wet cheeks. Her muma��s handbag was
lying on the ground beside her and quickly she reached in and
pulled out her muma��s pink mobile phone. Anna crouched down
lay down on her stomach and slithered to the edge. There was
still no movement from the body below and Anna waited for
another twelve minutes. There was still no movement. Her
mum was dead. Tears still streaming down her face, Anna
dialled the familiar number and the deep voice of a man
answered. a�?Daddy are you there?a�? Anna cried and twelve seconds later she heard her dad say a�?yesa�? so she whispered a�?mums dead!a�?
Chapter 1:
New school
Anna had been nine when that happened.
Annaa��s eyes gleamed. Music was blurting out of the stereo in her dada��s convertible at full volume, the roof was down and her brother, Toby, was watching a DVD, with his head-phones in, on the portable DVD player. Life was OK. In fact life was great because they were on their way to their new house in Beer. Beer was a small fishing village in Devon where many old people came to retire, but to Annaa��s relief there were many more villages and towns nearby thata��s population included many teenage girls and boys of her age. The school Anna was going to start was half way between Beer and Branscombe and it was called Sidley-Brook. Sidley-Brook had only four hundred and fifty five pupils, but it was one of the best schools in that area. Anna had never been into boys, to her boys were for friends not for boyfriends so every time she had been asked to go on a date or to go with someone to a school disco she had pretended to be ill. She had been asked out a lot, because who could resist a powerfully built, beautiful, red headed girl? Her beauty came mainly from the inside of her. The outside was as pretty as a supermodel, but there was something more, her soul was beautiful. Innocent, clean, young and full of love and it made her millions of times more beautiful than the prettiest of supermodels. Not many people realized this though, not humans anyway.
The car pulled up the drive of the new house. The name-plate on the front of the door read:
Fox-glov
My kids Father and I have been separated for a year and some months now and now we live in two different states. I live in California and he lives in Colorado. He had filed for visitation rights where as we made an agreement with the court involved that I would have our kids for 6 months and switch where he has our kids for 6 months until our kids started school they will than start visiting their Father every summer break and every other holidays. Our daughter is 5yrs old and she is in kindergarten. Our son is 4years old and he is not in school. I really don't want to separate my kids being that my son has to go to Colorado and since my daughters in school she will be staying home with me in California. Here is my reason: My kids father had our kids from December 3rd till July 1st of 2009(very painful but I did it for the kids) and since they were there in Colorado I was getting calls from my ex coworker stating that my kids Great grandmother visited the office crying and stating that the kids need to go home (back to my house)and that the kids are not eating right and need some clothes, they need love in their life etc. She even told me her self. That had made me very concerned. and now that I have my babies they tell me me how their Daddy was mad and broke the table and push his girlfriend down the stairs. That concerned me too because he was abusive to me in front of our kids when we were together at the time.February is coming where my son has to go to Colorado with his Father alone for 6month-I don't want to separate my kids..it would hurt my son's heart plus my daughter and I. I thought this would be good for the kids but really it's not and I don't know what I was thinking to agree with their father. Our kids are too young to be going through this crazy feeling of being separated for so long (6 months)...SOMEONE PLEASE LET ME KNOW WHAT I CAN DO TO KEEP MY SON HERE WITH ME AND HIS SISTER TILL SUMMER WHERE HE CAN GO WITH HIS SISTER!!! PLEASE!!!!
I also posted this in the parenting section but I haven't had any responses yet so I figured I would try here.
My husband and I have decided to separate. We have two amazing little girls; 2 and 6. Our separation is not going to be immediate because we have to both find a cheaper separate place to live and moving, etc. I am at a loss on how to prepare my daughter for this. Obviously it will be hard on my youngest but she is too young to really grasp anything. My eldest, however, is very attached to her daddy. I am not sure if it is best to hold my tongue until we are ready to make the change or slowly start to prepare her over the next month.
Any words of advise?
Their father has barely been in the picture. He comes by once a year to visit Trent (who is 12) on his birthday to take him to the hunting range and to buy him a new gun. Last week, he was found guilty of three counts of murder in the second degree and one in the first. I know that it was not his fault- in my heart and soul. I have no idea what to tell my children, and
they are already super violent and angry.
My oldest son, Trent, is 12 years old and hates me. He brings girls up to his room, throws used condoms in my face, and stays up late with his friends-who are bad influences. His younger brother (Zariah Add-9 years old) is following right into his footsteps! He spits on me if he does not get what he wants, punches his sister in the face (he gave her a black eye once. I had to say that I did it after getting drunk in order to avoid looking like a bad mother), and is repeating the first grade for the third time in a row. I have no idea what to do with him. I tried hiring a local girl to tutor him, but he ended up "feeling her up," and she threatened to sue me. I had to buy her and her friends booze in order to shut her up.
My only daughter, Avaereigh, who is four years old, already has quite a colorful vocabulary. She's been sent home several times for disrespecting the teacher and getting into fights. She does not respect me, her teachers, or God. I keep trying to tell her that if she doesn't obey me like it says she HAS to in the bible, but she just ignores me and gets into fights with Trent.
My three month old baby (they all have the same father, so don't call me a sl*t) is fantastic and beautiful, but all of my other children hate her. My son refuses to baby sit her. I asked Trent to just spend an hour watching her while I went to do the laundry in the apartment, and he walked out five minutes after I left! I came home, got the baby, drove out looking for him, and found him at the video arcade with three other guys!
When my tweleve year old was nine, he came up behind me and cut all of my hair off. I was on the computer, so I didn't see him coming. After I yelled at him to stop, he put a knife to my throat and told me to buy him ice cream or he would kill me.
This week, Trent decided to hit me in the shin with a baseball bat because I decided to take away his gun collection. Yesterday, my other son decided to stab me in the stomach as I was sleeping. He used a small kitchen knife, so there was not too much damage, but he refused to apologize or come with me to the hospital. My four year old daughter got kicked out of Sunday school for flashing a teacher. The teacher said that she screamed "GIRLS GONE WILD" when she did it. I was so embarrassed that I honestly don't think that I will ever return to that church ever again.
Earlier today, my daughter decided to steal Trent's gun and shoot the cat while I was preparing brunch. I had to lie and say that I shot that cat after a long night of drinking!
What can I do to get my children under control? How can I stop hem from spitting on me and punching me? Should I try to find a new daddy for them? By the way, their father's arrest was on the news, so I can't hide it from them.
Their father has barely been in the picture. He comes by once a year to visit Trent (who is 12) on his birthday to take him to the hunting range and to buy him a new gun. Last week, he was found guilty of three counts of murder in the second degree and one in the first. I know that it was not his fault- in my heart and soul. I have no idea what to tell my children, and
they are already super violent and angry.
My oldest son, Trent, is 12 years old and hates me. He brings girls up to his room, throws used condoms in my face, and stays up late with his friends-who are bad influences. His younger brother (Zariah Add-9 years old) is following right into his footsteps! He spits on me if he does not get what he wants, punches his sister in the face (he gave her a black eye once. I had to say that I did it after getting drunk in order to avoid looking like a bad mother), and is repeating the first grade for the third time in a row. I have no idea what to do with him. I tried hiring a local girl to tutor him, but he ended up "feeling her up," and she threatened to sue me. I had to buy her and her friends booze in order to shut her up.
My only daughter, Avaereigh, who is four years old, already has quite a colorful vocabulary. She's been sent home several times for disrespecting the teacher and getting into fights. She does not respect me, her teachers, or God. I keep trying to tell her that if she doesn't obey me like it says she HAS to in the bible, but she just ignores me and gets into fights with Trent.
My three month old baby (they all have the same father, so don't call me a sl*t) is fantastic and beautiful, but all of my other children hate her. My son refuses to baby sit her. I asked Trent to just spend an hour watching her while I went to do the laundry in the apartment, and he walked out five minutes after I left! I came home, got the baby, drove out looking for him, and found him at the video arcade with three other guys!
When my tweleve year old was nine, he came up behind me and cut all of my hair off. I was on the computer, so I didn't see him coming. After I yelled at him to stop, he put a knife to my throat and told me to buy him ice cream or he would kill me.
This week, Trent decided to hit me in the shin with a baseball bat because I decided to take away his gun collection. Yesterday, my other son decided to stab me in the stomach as I was sleeping. He used a small kitchen knife, so there was not too much damage, but he refused to apologize or come with me to the hospital. My four year old daughter got kicked out of Sunday school for flashing a teacher. The teacher said that she screamed "GIRLS GONE WILD" when she did it. I was so embarrassed that I honestly don't think that I will ever return to that church ever again.
Earlier today, my daughter decided to steal Trent's gun and shoot the cat while I was preparing brunch. I had to lie and say that I shot that cat after a long night of drinking!
What can I do to get my children under control? How can I stop hem from spitting on me and punching me? Should I try to find a new daddy for them? By the way, their father's arrest was on the news, so I can't hide it from them.
A friend of mine who I have known for a few years just recently moved back to town with her young daughter. I haven't seen her in two years and I have been looking forward to spending some time with her. We have talked on the phone, unfortunately most of the conversation consists of her talking about men and how cute this or that man is or anything else related to a man. I just called her up just now and the first word that came out of her mouth was the fact she found her baby's daddy walking in town and how cute he is and she went on and on about it. She doesn't even know the man's last name and she is acting like he is best thing since butter. I wanted to invite her over to my place this weekend so I could finally see her and she was so concerned with him because he may want to make plans. She said she would call me if he doesn't make plans with her. I understand he is her child's father, but he already is living with someone and she will end up just being his side dish. I feel like now I am no longer needed because she has found a potential relationship with a man. I can't compete against that. I don't have a lot of friends and I was hoping to spend some time with her and get to know her better. Now that this guy is around, I probably won't see her very often. It seems when I try to make friends, I am thrown over for other people, especially a man. This isn't the first time. I am now to the point that I no longer want friends at all. I will just stay to myself. Who needs them when I am treated like a extra or a second class citizen as soon as a man comes along.
A friend of mine who I have known for a few years just recently moved back to town with her young daughter. I haven't seen her in two years and I have been looking forward to spending some time with her. We have talked on the phone, unfortunately most of the conversation consists of her talking about men and how cute this or that man is or anything else related to a man. I just called her up just now and the first word that came out of her mouth was the fact she found her baby's daddy walking in town and how cute he is and she went on and on about it. She doesn't even know the man's last name and she is acting like he is best thing since butter. I wanted to invite her over to my place this weekend so I could finally see her and she was so concerned with him because he may want to make plans. She said she would call me if he doesn't make plans with her. I understand he is her child's father, but he already is living with someone and she will end up just being his side dish. I feel like now I am no longer needed because she has found a potential relationship with a man. I can't compete against that. I don't have a lot of friends and I was hoping to spend some time with her and get to know her better. Now that this guy is around, I probably won't see her very often. It seems when I try to make friends, I am thrown over for other people, especially a man. This isn't the first time. I am now to the point that I no longer want friends at all. I will just stay to myself. Who needs them when I am treated like a extra or a second class citizen as soon as a man comes along.
I just recently found out i am pregnant. Both the dad and I are excited!! Now here is my main question. He has a 7 year old who lives with us,raised by us, and we truly thought would be the only one. She clings on to him, and since i am only her step mom, she respects me, but its daddy daddy daddy. I am not sour over this, this is just how she always been. Her mom has 2 other children, who are younger then my step daughter, and don't see her oldest daughter at any type of schedule or call at any specific time or week, or month. Now i feel that maybe she will feel like we will either miss treat her, or push her to the side, which is so totally NOT true!! But i want her to feel like she should welcome the newest member with happiness and not sadness. So here's my questions....
How do i tell her that theres a baby on the way??
Other then telling her we will still love her and cherish her, what is the best thing to do so she get angry over the new little bundle??
Since she is seven do you think it would OK for her to come to some of the doctors appointments so she feels like she is part of the family??
I truly love her. I feel like she is mine in so many ways. She even acts like me!! lol, i know i am not her mom,but its still me she acts like. We always take her places, and buy her things. But i want her to welcome the new baby!!
Also a problem is she is really clingy and when the baby is born i feel she will get more clingy. How do i break her out of this??
I want to do the same activity as my kids Dad?
I am the step dad of a wonderful 6-year old girl. In addition to her I have two younger children with my wife (the mother of the child in question). I love all my children equally and unconditionally.
For quite some time, I have been looking forward to enrolling with my eldest daughter (step-daughter) in the YMCAa��s Indian Princesses. This is a 3-year program in which you and your daughter join a tribe with other dads and daughters. Basically, your tribe meets two times per month and partakes in activities such as camping, community service, crafts etca�� Some of the activities are unique to your tribe, but many are standard. Participants also partake in several larger events with members of all the other tribes.
I was really looking forward to being a part of this program, because it will give us quality daddy/daughter time. It is also supposed to be really fun. I plan to enroll my other kids when they come of age.
The issue here is that her biological father also has been looking forward to joining the Indian Princess program. My suggestion to him was that we both join separate tribes. Of course, this means doing many things twice. It would also mean that for the big all-tribe events (annual camping trip, formal dance etc..), he and I would alternate taking her.
My daughtera��s biological father does not like this idea. He would rather do the program with her alone. He feels that it would diminish their time together. Some of his concerns as follows:
1)She will be doing all of the activities twice (making head-dresses, picking an Indian name, going to meetings etc...) and she might get burned out, or the very least, it wona��t be as much fun for her to repeat the same activities.
2)He is also concerned that the bonding time he is trying to maintain will be devalued and is worried that an underlying competition might develop (this tribe is more fun than that tribe). This competition in his eyes is unavoidable, even if he and I could be the bigger people, since much of what determines group dynamics are the other kids in the group.
3)He doesna��t want to miss key big events
4)He is concerned whether she will have time for other activities such as swim team and soccer if she is doing 2 YMCA programs. With 2 programs, she will basically be tied up every other Saturday and once night during the week (every other week) for the next three years.
I understand how much her dad loves her and I understand that he wants more bonding time (he only sees her about 2-3 times per week). He feels that because I get to see her so much more, I should give them this time alone. He asks that I find another activity or perhaps create a special, regularly scheduled night with her once or twice per month or perhaps do something special a few weekends throughout the year.
There is one other factor to consider. I am planning to do the YMCA program with my younger two children. I am concerned that my eldest daughter will feel she is being treated differently if I don't do the program with her. I am afraid she might think I love her less or that she is less important to our family dynamic.
I would appreciate anyonea��s advisea??
I want to do the same activity as my kids Dad?
I am the step dad of a wonderful 6-year old girl. In addition to her I have two younger children with my wife (the mother of the child in question). I love all my children equally and unconditionally.
For quite some time, I have been looking forward to enrolling with my eldest daughter (step-daughter) in the YMCAa��s Indian Princesses. This is a 3-year program in which you and your daughter join a tribe with other dads and daughters. Basically, your tribe meets two times per month and partakes in activities such as camping, community service, crafts etca�� Some of the activities are unique to your tribe, but many are standard. Participants also partake in several larger events with members of all the other tribes.
I was really looking forward to being a part of this program, because it will give us quality daddy/daughter time. It is also supposed to be really fun. I plan to enroll my other kids when they come of age.
The issue here is that her biological father also has been looking forward to joining the Indian Princess program. My suggestion to him was that we both join separate tribes. Of course, this means doing many things twice. It would also mean that for the big all-tribe events (annual camping trip, formal dance etc..), he and I would alternate taking her.
My daughtera��s biological father does not like this idea. He would rather do the program with her alone. He feels that it would diminish their time together. Some of his concerns as follows:
1)She will be doing all of the activities twice (making head-dresses, picking an Indian name, going to meetings etc...) and she might get burned out, or the very least, it wona��t be as much fun for her to repeat the same activities.
2)He is also concerned that the bonding time he is trying to maintain will be devalued and is worried that an underlying competition might develop (this tribe is more fun than that tribe). This competition in his eyes is unavoidable, even if he and I could be the bigger people, since much of what determines group dynamics are the other kids in the group.
3)He doesna��t want to miss key big events
4)He is concerned whether she will have time for other activities such as swim team and soccer if she is doing 2 YMCA programs. With 2 programs, she will basically be tied up every other Saturday and once night during the week (every other week) for the next three years.
I understand how much her dad loves her and I understand that he wants more bonding time (he only sees her about 2-3 times per week). He feels that because I get to see her so much more, I should give them this time alone. He asks that I find another activity or perhaps create a special, regularly scheduled night with her once or twice per month or perhaps do something special a few weekends throughout the year.
There is one other factor to consider. I am planning to do the YMCA program with my younger two children. I am concerned that my eldest daughter will feel she is being treated differently if I don't do the program with her. I am afraid she might think I love her less or that she is less important to our family dynamic.
I would appreciate anyonea��s advisea??
I am the step dad of a wonderful 6-year old girl. In addition to her I have two younger children with my wife (the mother of the child in question). I love all my children equally and unconditionally.
For quite some time, I have been looking forward to enrolling with my eldest daughter (step-daughter) in the YMCAa��s Indian Princesses. This is a 3-year program in which you and your daughter join a tribe with other dads and daughters. Basically, your tribe meets two times per month and partakes in activities such as camping, community service, crafts etca�� Some of the activities are unique to your tribe, but many are standard. Participants also partake in several larger events with members of all the other tribes.
I was really looking forward to being a part of this program, because it will give us quality daddy/daughter time. It is also supposed to be really fun. I plan to enroll my other kids when they come of age.
The issue here is that her biological father also has been looking forward to joining the Indian Princess program. My suggestion to him was that we both join separate tribes. Of course, this means doing many things twice. It would also mean that for the big all-tribe events (annual camping trip, formal dance etc..), he and I would alternate taking her.
My daughtera��s biological father does not like this idea. He would rather do the program with her alone. He feels that it would diminish their time together. Some of his concerns as follows:
1)She will be doing all of the activities twice (making head-dresses, picking an Indian name, going to meetings etc...) and she might get burned out, or the very least, it wona��t be as much fun for her to repeat the same activities.
2)He is also concerned that the bonding time he is trying to maintain will be devalued and is worried that an underlying competition might develop (this tribe is more fun than that tribe). This competition in his eyes is unavoidable, even if he and I could be the bigger people, since much of what determines group dynamics are the other kids in the group.
3)He doesna��t want to miss key big events
4)He is concerned whether she will have time for other activities such as swim team and soccer if she is doing 2 YMCA programs. With 2 programs, she will basically be tied up every other Saturday and once night during the week (every other week) for the next three years.
I understand how much her dad loves her and I understand that he wants more bonding time (he only sees her about 2-3 times per week). He feels that because I get to see her so much more, I should give them this time alone. He asks that I find another activity or perhaps create a special, regularly scheduled night with her once or twice per month or perhaps do something special a few weekends throughout the year.
There is one other factor to consider. I am planning to do the YMCA program with my younger two children. I am concerned that my eldest daughter will feel she is being treated differently if I don't do the program with her. I am afraid she might think I love her less or that she is less important to our family dynamic.
I would appreciate anyonea��s advisea??
Their father has barely been in the picture. He comes by once a year to visit Trent (who is 12) on his birthday to take him to the hunting range and to buy him a new gun. Last week, he was found guilty of three counts of murder in the second degree and one in the first. I know that it was not his fault- in my heart and soul. I have no idea what to tell my children, and
they are already super violent and angry.
My oldest son, Trent, is 12 years old and hates me. He brings girls up to his room, throws used condoms in my face, and stays up late with his friends-who are bad influences. His younger brother (Zariah Add-9 years old) is following right into his footsteps! He spits on me if he does not get what he wants, punches his sister in the face (he gave her a black eye once. I had to say that I did it after getting drunk in order to avoid looking like a bad mother), and is repeating the first grade for the third time in a row. I have no idea what to do with him. I tried hiring a local girl to tutor him, but he ended up "feeling her up," and she threatened to sue me. I had to buy her and her friends booze in order to shut her up.
My only daughter, Avaereigh, who is four years old, already has quite a colorful vocabulary. She's been sent home several times for disrespecting the teacher and getting into fights. She does not respect me, her teachers, or God. I keep trying to tell her that if she doesn't obey me like it says she HAS to in the bible, but she just ignores me and gets into fights with Trent.
My three month old baby (they all have the same father, so don't call me a sl*t) is fantastic and beautiful, but all of my other children hate her. My son refuses to baby sit her. I asked Trent to just spend an hour watching her while I went to do the laundry in the apartment, and he walked out five minutes after I left! I came home, got the baby, drove out looking for him, and found him at the video arcade with three other guys!
When my tweleve year old was nine, he came up behind me and cut all of my hair off. I was on the computer, so I didn't see him coming. After I yelled at him to stop, he put a knife to my throat and told me to buy him ice cream or he would kill me.
This week, Trent decided to hit me in the shin with a baseball bat because I decided to take away his gun collection. Yesterday, my other son decided to stab me in the stomach as I was sleeping. He used a small kitchen knife, so there was not too much damage, but he refused to apologize or come with me to the hospital. My four year old daughter got kicked out of Sunday school for flashing a teacher. The teacher said that she screamed "GIRLS GONE WILD" when she did it. I was so embarrassed that I honestly don't think that I will ever return to that church ever again.
Earlier today, my daughter decided to steal Trent's gun and shoot the cat while I was preparing brunch. I had to lie and say that I shot that cat after a long night of drinking!
What can I do to get my children under control? How can I stop hem from spitting on me and punching me? Should I try to find a new daddy for them? By the way, their father's arrest
My fiance and I have been together four years, we have two young children together. He has another child by another woman whom he hasn't seen in about 5-10 years now. Yesterday she flagged him down to tell him that his daughter, the one he hasn't seen in years, has the swine flu. I seen them talking after he had pulled out of the driveway, and I put two and two together and saw that in top of all this, she lives a couple of houses down from me! This girl never liked me in school, we would always have words,and basically never got along. So can somebody pleas tell me should I bee looking for a new place to live or just get over it and deal with it? I want to know if you don't want him to see his child, why are you flagging him down now? I don't flag my other baby daddy down!
I went to a local private catholic school to see about signing my daughter up for Pre-K, that was last year when she was 3. They were all smiles and showed me around and we signed her up. The point of this was that she would be 4 years old at the begining of Kindergarten, a year ahead of most kids her age. Public pre-k wouldnt take her until she was 4. Now, a year and $5000 dollars later they won't let her sign up for kindergarten because "she is too young". Well, yes, i know she is young, we discussed that when we signed her up in your pre-k. They put her in pre-k again, she has been there for a couple days now until i figure out an alternative solution. My daughter is devistated. She wants to be with her friends and cant understand what she did wrong. I try to comfort her and reassure her as much as possible. They even put her in the line with the kindergarten kids in the morning and then seperate her inside and bring her to pre-k! I witnessed this without them knowing I was there because my wife usually drops her off so they dont know my face, i also witnessed my daughter have a mental breakdown because she thought she was going to be with her friends that day. Last night I read her a bedtime story and after I read her a story I always ask her if she liked it and what was her favorite part. Last nights story went as follows...
"did you like the story hun?"
"...yeah..."
"What was your favorite part?"
"....."
"Hun? What was your favorite part?"
"daddy am I a good girl or a bad girl?"
"..?.. youre a good girl sweety! why?"
"why did they make me sing the kindergarten song and make me stay in pre-k with the babies??? I dont like that!"
I am 25, a grown man, and i was brought to tears. My four year old daughter has to deal with this on her mind while listening to her bed time story? I am livid. My wife is convinced that this is going to damage her psychologically. Can I sue for damages?
I went to say goodnight to my daughter and have a short chat about Obama's propaganda session tomorrow. As I was leaving, with tears in her eye she said, "Daddy, I am starting to forget what freedom feels like. How did things used to be? Will we ever be free again?"
How can I answer this question in a way a young teenager would understand without alarming her but still telling the truth about what is going on?
hi
I need parenting advice like as soon as possible! My husband and I have been married for almost 11 years and we have 8 and a half (one on the way) children. he has a 14 year old daughter from a previous marriage and i have a 12 -year old daughter from a previous marriage and the rest are OURS together. we have had sole custody of his daughter for almost 2 years now and I have noticed some differences in the way my husband treat our children. or let me rephrase that..... the way he treats his daughter (who by the way I have never treated any of the children any different) anyways he disciplines the rest of the children very strictly and with her she can practically get away with murder. OUR children are all younger than her but the y have more chores than she has and when she doesnt hold up her part of the chores he takes it out on the other children except for her. I love my husband and ALL of our children very much but I really feel like this is eventually gonna split us up. whenever i say something about it to him he says that I am just singling her out because she is not my daughter. but on the other hand he does the same here lately to my daughter. and not I am the only one who is noticing... all of the kids are also saying things to the effect of "why does daddy always get on us and not her?" and things like that. any advice on how I should answer this question would be really appreciated!
thanks every1
thank you sgt. for your concern but it is 100% unnecessary that you need to know why I have so many kids!
i have a 18 month old daughter.
her dad left us when i was five months pregnant with her.
he has never asked about her..he has never seen her.
today is father's day and i am grateful that she is too young to understand what today is meant to mean
that she still has no idea that he father doesn't want anything to do with her.
but i know it wont always be this way
does anyone on here have an adice on how to handle father;s day when dad doesn't want to be in the picture?
maybe instead of it being father's day in our family
maybe it could be mother daughter day
i just have this vision in my head of her asking me one day who she is meant to give a father's day card to
or in pre school telling her teacher
but i dont have a daddy to make a card for
it upsets me very much.
if anyone has any advice on how they have handled it
please let me know
thank you
i wish i could have a poppy day
i haven't seen or heard from my father since my parents divorced when i was 8
i dont have any brothers
my family is all in europe.i only have my mother here
and his family dont want anything to do with my daughter
because he has told them not to see us.
One of the younger boys I work with recently found out he was going to be a daddy, he and his girlfriend couldn't be happier, till she had to tell her parents. He just turn18 and she just turn 16. Yes they are really young, but it happens.
Her parents completely tripped. I can understand them being mad, I would be upset if one my daughters came home pregnant. But they made her quit her job, and he isn't allowed to see or talk to her, even online, anymore. I don't get this my parents did the same thing to me and my husband when I got pregnant with our first one, the damage is already done so I dont see the big deal...But thats not my point. Now they are telling him that he cna't have anything to do with the baby, the doctors visits and he isn't allowed at the hopstiol when she has the baby. His girlfriend is scared and confused and upset so she is pretty much going along with whatever her parents want.
I know once the baby is born, they can't keep him from the baby, he just has to take them to court. But is there anything he can do before the baby is born.
He is a good kid, he is working and taking double shifts, and really wants to do right by the girl and her baby.
I understnad about the parents being mad and why they are mad. I have two daughters myself and I worry about this...I just find it crazy b/c the guy isn't doing the thing that you always hear people complaining about and walking away.
I've started a new neighbourhood but I'm running out of ideas for families. So far I've got:
My first family, the elderly Mayor Jeremy Quimby and his business tycoon wife Sarah-Jane, who live with their youngest accidental daughter Tabitha and their grandchild Elliot, who belongs to their second youngest daughter Eliza-Beth, currently in college, who got pregnant by Remington the maid. Their eldest, twins Zachary and Nathaniel, have moved out and started families of their own. Chef Nathaniel lives with his hairdresser girlfriend Danica Arizona and they have a son together, Seth. Artist Zachary lives with his scientist/doctor fiancA� Matilda Cosmos and they have two daughters, Winnie and Chloe.
Next I've got the LeBron family, which includes financially struggling fast food shift manager Andre LeBron, who insists he's distantly related to the French countess Lady Angelique le Bron, his out of work fiancA� Jasmine (they can't afford a wedding yet), and their three children Darius, Yvette, and lastly Ivy, who wasn't supposed to happen.
Then there's Johnny Vegas, a cop who lost his wife to a housefire when their daughter was a baby. She's a teenager now, her boyfriend is a criminal, and Daddy Cop is afraid her good for nothing boyfriend is going to get his precious little girl into trouble.
Then there's the mad catwoman, but we don't talk about her.
Any ideas?
My exboyfriend and I are expecting our first child in 6 weeks. We are very young, both 17, and I am fully aware that we made a big mistake, we weren't ready to be that close in a relationship but that is beside the point.
Like all high school students we didn't last and he has a new girl friend. I'm fine with that, we aren't meant to be and that's his life. He also wants to be a part of our daughter's life and I believe that is wonderful, our baby does deserve to have a mommy and daddy and even if we aren't together I want us to be at peace with each other. For now everything I do is for my daughter or with her in mind so I don't know if i should speak up about my issue.
Today at lunch we were talking about my birth plan, he said he wanted to be in the room to see his baby come out, again it's his kid too i'm fine with that, but he also started talking about how Natalie (his new girlfriend) was so excited about him being a father and how she went and bought Lilliana some clothes, and random gifts and such, and how she was going to be in the waiting room ready to take pictures and crap. I'm not okay with that. Maybe it is a jealousy thing, i'm not sure but I don't really feel comfortable with her being around my baby when she is born, or at all for that matter. Am I being stupid? Or should I just let it be? I'm sure he wouldn't be happy if i had some guy at the hospital waiting to hold her as soon as she was born.
Thanks in advance :)
ok im starting to write a novel about vampires. i got the idea from a dream i had the other night and i want your honest feedback.copyrighted to myself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Those Who Sleep
Prologue
a�?Darling come away from the window.Its sunrise. Time to go to bed.a�?
a�?I know daddy. I just want to see my skin in the sunlight.a�?
a�?You do that quite enough. Come on. Mother is tired and I want to get to bed also.a�?
a�?Alright.a�? The little child was sad as she went to her room. She hated being what she was. She longed to be like other kids in who could be in the sunlight. Those who went to school and played with their friends before supper. But she never would. She reluctantly climbed into bed thinking about the beautiful sunlight. Soon her eyes were heavy and with one last thought, fell asleep.
Chapter 1
That little girl had been me. Riley Croswell. I am all grown up now and married. But I am still the same person. Sometimes I stay up in the sun after all of the others went to bed and watch my pale skin turn invisible in the sun. It was beautiful and relaxing to watch it shift around and sparkle. My husband, Alexander Croswell, was sleeping peacefully in our bedroom. He was the same thing as me, a vampire. We had been one our whole lives and so had our family and friends. Alex and I had grown up together, falling in love which each step we took. Our daughter, Riley, was sleeping in her room and suddenly I longed to wake her up and share this with her. She would love it, I was sure, and it would open her horizons. Then I remembered she was nothing like me and every bit like Alex. She didna��t want to see the sunlight touch her skin and she didna��t want to know what she was missing. She was only five but she was practical already. Sure she loved and adored me, but she was closer to Alex and I hated it. Every day I asked myself why I was different but Alex told me thata��s what made me the most beautiful creature to him. I longed to feel that way but I couldna��t.
Soon I was tired, but I hated to leave. I would stay here forever if I could. The morning was so peaceful and quiet.
Out of the corner of my eye, I saw Alexander get up. He looked around for me and then he stared when he found me. I sighed and got up. Before I could get to the door though, he was standing next to me with his arms tightly around my waist.
a�?Stay if you wish. Ia��ll just join you.a�? His cool voice was low and hypnotizing. He sat down on the porch swing and I sat on his lap. We rocked for a few minutes before he turned to me and lightly kissed my mouth. Shocks went through me and I smiled up at him.
a�?Ita��s almost time to enroll Riley in boarding school.a�?
a�?I know. I wish we could send her to a regular schoola��a�?
a�?She knows shea��s different. That she cannot go to school like the Graham kids next door. She is fine with being herself.a�?
a�?I know. Ita��s just I always wanted to have a normal childhood and I couldna��t.a�?
a�?Shea��s not like you.a�?
a�?Dona��t remind me. I wish she was.a�?
a�?I dona��t. Then you wouldna��t be the only one like you.a�?
a�?Thanks. Have you researched schools?a�?
a�?Yeah. I was going to send her to that school you went to.a�?
a�?The Transylvanian School for Young Vampirea��s?a�?
a�?You said you had loved it and you turned out perfect.a�?
a�? Yes but that was five hundred years ago. I dona��t want her going there. The headmistress died ten years ago in a murder raid. Those mortals in Transylvania do a raid all time. What is something happened to her?a�?
a�?Ok then. What about that school in England?a�?
a�?Ia��ll have to check. I dona��t want her going to some school in a country full of who knows what.a�?
a�?Sweetheart, something could happen to her right here in America.a�?
a�?But we would be here to watch over her.a�?
a�?Maybe not. What if the Van Helsings get a hold of us? Then what?a�?
a�?Then she goes to my parents for help.a�?
a�?Well what about my sister?a�?
a�?Taylor? Absolutely not. Shea��s been messed up ever since the Van Helsings took your parents lives.a�?
a�?Alright. So your parents will take care of her if we are killed.a�?
ok so sorry that i named her and her daughter riley also. i didnt realize that until after i had put it up here!!!!i fixed it and her name is emma
I'm the proud mom of two fantastic kids. My son is 6 and was born to us, and my daughter is 4 and she is our adopted angel. She was our first and only foster care placement. She came to us legally free. After being with us for 10 months, we we're able to legally adopt her.
She had been at her prior placement for nearly a year. When she came to us she had been abused, neglected, and malnourished to the point that I could see her ribs, and hip bones. I was so angry that another adult could do this to a sweet little girl like mine. I swore to myself that day, that If I found out who her prior foster parents we're, I was going to hunt them down like the dirty dogs they are, and beat the **** out of them, for what they did to my little girl!
My husband had the 3:30 pm to 11:30 pm watch last night at his squadron. He was on watch with someone young man about 19 or 20 years old. I've met the young man, and he's quite mature for his age. My husband being the typical proud daddy that is, showed this young man our kids pictures. The young man recognized our little girl, and told my husband of what actually happened at our daughters prior placement.
Apparently it was not our daughters previous foster parents that had abused our little girl, it was actually one on the foster care parents 19 year old son, and his 19 year old girl friend. The foster care parents had to go out of town for about 2 weeks, and they couldn't take the kids with them. The foster father's mother had passed away in her sleep, and they had to go and clear out the house, and put it up for sale.
At that time, they had 3 foster care children. Our daughter, and two little boys. The story goes is that the 19 y/o son and his girl friend we're put in charge of taking care of the kids for 2 weeks. DCS knew about the foster care parents going out of town, and they said their son was a "responsible" adult. Well the 19 y/o son, decided to get drunk, and throw wild parties, and spent ALL of the money his parents had left him for food. So someone called DCS and they went in to do an investigation, and pulled the kids out of the house. DCS called the foster care parents, and told them what happened. Their house was shut down until the investigation was concluded.
Their 19 y/o son, his girlfriend, and two others we're charged with child endangerment. The 19 y/o son got rehab, and probation, his gf got probation, and the other two we're let off the hook. The reason they got off so lightly is because it was their "first offense".
I think that they should spent some time in jail for what they did our daughter! She was so filthy, and reeked of urine and poo. She had what looked like cigarette burns on her legs. I will never forget that feeling of deep intense anger, when I saw what those ******** did to such a small child.
Well my husband found out the names of the people, and where they approximately lived. Right now I want to get into the car, go to their house,and beat the **** out of them for what they did to our little girl.
I know I could go to jail for what I really want to do, but I can't really endanger the lives of the twins I'm carrying. I just want to kick someone's backside so badly it's not even funny.
So would you be willing to go to jail, if someone abused your child?
Jennield, The two boys were siblings, and they aren't related to our daughter. If they had been, we would have asked to have them as well.
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